Success Strengths for Certified Legal Nurse Consultants: Renewal

Nurses have the strength of renewal. You’re a healer. You renew and re-energize the patients you care for, physically and emotionally, turning them out healthier than they were before. You give and you give and you give all your energy to renew everyone else. But do you turn that strength around and apply it to you?

Consider this, if you stepped back and looked at your daily routine objectively, as if it were happening to a good friend, what would be your advice? Slow down? Take a few breaths? Spend a few moments mindfully enjoying one day before another day crashes in with new demands?

You can’t keep giving what you don’t have. If you’re feeling like an overworked, underpaid nurse it’s time to reclaim your life energy through frequent renewal. Remember, our thoughts become our reality and renewal helps us change both our thoughts and our reality.

To have a healthy, exciting and fulfilling relationship with others, you must first have a healthy, exciting and fulfilling relationship with yourself. When you’re your own best friend this is easy, but too often our practices sabotage what we need and instead we act as our own worst enemy – repeating behaviors that we know are bad for us and not taking the renewal steps we need to restore ourselves. If we don’t renew on a regular basis, we’ll slip further and further into the state we’re seeking to escape. When you renew, you recharge your batteries to gain the energy for your big goals while still juggling the daily challenges of your career and life.

I recently mentored a CLNC® student who shared that she had lost the connection to herself, to her vision and to what really mattered in life. After our visit she vowed to go home and get reacquainted with herself.

I’m just as challenged as you are. When I left my hospital job to start my own business, I fantasized about 4-hour work days and lying by the pool sipping margaritas. Boy was that a hallucination!

Knowing all the issues and the 21 employees waiting for me at the office, I wake up 30 minutes earlier than I have to, and well before any sane person, to make time for a cup of quiet renewal in the form of healthy green tea. When I get into the office I’m ready: “Come on, bring on the madness!” Taking time to charge my own batteries prepares me that much more for the challenges and opportunities each day brings.

It’s okay to take care of yourself. If you don’t, the odds are nobody else will. Carve out your own 30-minute renewal break daily, before everyone gets up or after everyone has gone to bed, and you’ll find energy abundantly available when you need it to grow your nursing career, your legal nurse consulting business and your life.

Success Is Inside!

P.S. Comment and share how you choose to renew and reclaim your life energies.

2 thoughts on “Success Strengths for Certified Legal Nurse Consultants: Renewal

  1. I am working full time as a floor nurse with hopes to work as a Certified Legal Nurse Consutlant full time soon. In order to do this, I must put in over time each day. By the end of the week I am exhausted and out of energy. This weekend I spent the day with my entire family. We went on a 5 hour canoe trip- no cell phones, no traffic, no computers- just peace and tranquility. It was a reminder of the important things in life, and a total recharge for my spirit battery! As nurses, we too often overlook taking time out for recharging our batteries. This one day of peace recharged my spirit and helped me get ready to start off the week with full power!

  2. Ditto, but I reward the good things that happen as a result of my work with a manicure and pedicure. I owe that much to myself. Besides it presents you with a nice clean look that people like or are impressed with. I consider that a double reward that reflects my presentation to others also.

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